Explore the reality of Master/slave relationships, kink, and consensual BDSM. Through in-depth interviews and deep-dive episodes, my podcast reveals the lives, challenges, and growth of those who embrace power exchange and the psychological and spiritual layers behind these dynamics
- With over 100,000 downloads, this podcast is hosted by Master Phil—author, kink coach, and global educator on BDSM and Master/slave relationships. Visit masterslavelifestyle.com for 90+ articles and a free guide to help you explore this lifestyle.
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In this episode, I speak with Dr Richard Sprott and Dr Anna Randall from TASHRA - The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance. In this episode, we discover how they merged the personal and business to focus on kink and BDSM.
We talk about how therapy has changed its view on BDSM and Master/slave relationships, and what to do if you are looking for a therapist. But also how we can use the skills we have learnt in BDSM and Master/slave to find the right therapist for us.
And they also talk about the Kink Health Study - which will be one of the most extensive studies on Kink people and communities ever done. ----------- Visit masterslavelifestyle.com for more episodes, 90+ articles, and a free guide on mastering power exchange. Explore deeper insights, resources, and a community to support your journey! GUEST INFORMATION TASHRA - https://www.tashra.org Kink Health Study - https://www.kinkhealth.org
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In this episode, Sir Tyger Yoshi and his slave speak about their 3-year relationship. They detail how they found each other and how by focussing on flow and building up things slowly, they found their way to a total power exchange relationship. Important note: This episode contains a brief mention of suicide; please be aware if this subject triggers you. ----------- Visit masterslavelifestyle.com for more episodes, 90+ articles, and a free guide on mastering power exchange. Explore deeper insights, resources, and a community to support your journey! GUEST INFORMATION AND HELP LINKS Tyger Yoshi: Twitter/IG/recon: tygeryoshi slave: Twitter/IG: tygersslave Recon: slaveinco Addiction Resources: US: SAMHSA’s national helpline: 800-662-4357 UK: Action on Addiction: 0300 330 0659 Other countries: https://www.helpguide.org/find-help.htm
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Find out about Boi David’s story to embrace his authentic self as a submissive and Black Man/African American Man. Boi David is the Vice President of the International Level Association (ILA) and was the 2019 winner for Mr Atlanta Eagle. He defines himself as a submissive looking for a dominant to serve. ----------- Visit masterslavelifestyle.com for more episodes, 90+ articles, and a free guide on mastering power exchange. Explore deeper insights, resources, and a community to support your journey! GUEST INFORMATION Instagram: @becomingtheboy Email: becomingtheboy@gmail.com National Leather Association: vice-president@nla-international.com
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In this episode, we have Dominant Dan back on the show talking about his kinky, polyamorous family. Find out what makes it a family, how it works, Dan's role as the dominant in caring for and looking after the family, and how blood is thicker than water when it comes to family. ----------- Visit masterslavelifestyle.com for more episodes, 90+ articles, and a free guide on mastering power exchange. Explore deeper insights, resources, and a community to support your journey! GUEST INFORMATION You can contact Dan at: www.gay-BDSM.club info@gay-BDSM.club Telegram: @DanApusMonoceros
Other links from Dan: Recon: DanApusMonoceros - https://www.recon.com/view_profile.aspx?id=534119 https://www.facebook.com/gaybdsmclub https://twitter.com/GayBDSMClub https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD8S_Ned4eTB2fR0rZ1tQtQ https://www.patreon.com/dieteegesellschaft
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In this episode, we talk to Master Cage from San Jose. Master Cage has been a Master and had a polyamorous kink family for 18 years. In this episode, we learn about his household and philosophy of slavery, including how important it is for the Master to mentor the slave and the importance of experiences to figure this out. ----------- Visit masterslavelifestyle.com for more episodes, 90+ articles, and a free guide on mastering power exchange. Explore deeper insights, resources, and a community to support your journey!
GUEST INFORMATION Master Cage sadly passed away in 2023
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In this episode, I discuss Bootblacking with a boi known as BootBlackCub or Craig- who introduced the concept to the UK. Through our discussion on Bootblacking, we speak about the importance of community and giving to it, what you can get back, and the simple joy of a boi giving. ----------- Visit masterslavelifestyle.com for more episodes, 90+ articles, and a free guide on mastering power exchange. Explore deeper insights, resources, and a community to support your journey!
GUEST INFORMATION https://twitter.com/bootblackcub http://bootblackcub.com https://twitter.com/kinkyboyspod https://kinkyboyspodcast.com More information on BDSM and shame
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In the second part of my interview with English Leather Master, we discuss the importance of integration for Master and slave personalities and in the Master/slave relationship. We discuss the importance of integrating oneself to integrating all the different aspects of your life - from your Master/slave relationship to work. ----------- Visit masterslavelifestyle.com for more episodes, 90+ articles, and a free guide on mastering power exchange. Explore deeper insights, resources, and a community to support your journey! GUEST INFORMATION Safe for work: www.EnglishLeatherMaster.com Instagram @englishleathermaster / @elmssub Twitter @elmcoaching Not safe for work: Twitter: @englishleatherm / @elmssub More information on the Keegen mindset.
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OTHER INFORMATION This episode contains a brief mention of suicide; please be aware if this subject can trigger you. You can find help at In the US, the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline - https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ is at 800-273-8255 and online chat is also available at https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/. You can also text HOME to 741741 to connect with a crisis text line counselor. In the UK and Ireland, Samaritans - https://www.samaritans.org/ can be contacted on 116 123 or email: jo@samaritans.org or jo@samaritans.ie. In Australia, the crisis support service Lifeline - https://www.lifeline.org.au/ is 13 11 14. Other international helplines can be found at www.befrienders.org
In this episode, I speak to English Leather Master and his slave. Find out about their journey, from a long-distance relationship to unexpectedly living together at the start of the first wave of COVID lockdowns. We also talk about the need for both Maste ----------- Visit masterslavelifestyle.com for more episodes, 90+ articles, and a free guide on mastering power exchange. Explore deeper insights, resources, and a community to support your journey! GUEST INFORMATION Safe for work: www.EnglishLeatherMaster.com Instagram @englishleathermaster / @elmssub Twitter @elmcoaching Not safe for work: Twitter: @englishleatherm / @elmssub
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Fetish escorting and Master/slave relationships - what can the one learn from the other? ----------- Visit masterslavelifestyle.com for more episodes, 90+ articles, and a free guide on mastering power exchange. Explore deeper insights, resources, and a community to support your journey! GUEST INFORMATION You can contact Sir Dave at: Website: http://www.sirdave.uk Twitter: https://twitter.com/sirdave_uk
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In this epsiode we interview Dan Apus Monoceros. Dan is a Dom, Rigger, Sadist, Owner, Master and more. He has his own kink household, is a BDSM artist and runs some of the best BDSM nights in Berlin. Dan talks about his journey to find his authentic form of dominance and his learnings and thoughts when he tried to become the stereotypical Master, and how important it is to define yourself as you want to be. ----------- Visit masterslavelifestyle.com for more episodes, 90+ articles, and a free guide on mastering power exchange. Explore deeper insights, resources, and a community to support your journey! GUEST INFORMATION You can contact Dan at: www.gay-BDSM.club info@gay-BDSM.club Telegram: @DanApusMonoceros Other links from Dan: Recon: DanApusMonoceros - https://www.recon.com/view_profile.aspx?id=534119 https://www.facebook.com/gaybdsmclub https://twitter.com/GayBDSMClub https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCD8S_Ned4eTB2fR0rZ1tQtQ https://www.patreon.com/dieteegesellschaft
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